Last Updated on January 30, 2025 by Angela Vaz
Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a deep conversation, laughing so hard your stomach hurts, all because someone asked a ridiculous “Would You Rather” question?
There’s just something about these little dilemmas that bring out the best (and sometimes the worst) in people.
Whether it’s choosing between two impossibly bad options or trying to pick between two equally amazing possibilities, Would You Rather is the ultimate icebreaker, the best party starter, and sometimes, a serious test of character!
My friends and I love doing this when we go out.
And let’s be honest—when you play Would You Rather with adults, the questions get a little spicier, a little more personal, and way more hilarious.
Suddenly, you’re faced with dilemmas like, “Would you rather always say exactly what’s on your mind or never be able to speak again?” or “Would you rather have unlimited money but no love, or find the love of your life but always struggle financially?”
These aren’t just goofy choices; they make you think, they spark debates, and they reveal just how wild (or practical) your friends really are.
It’s fun!
I’ve played this game with family, with close friends, and even with coworkers at awkward office parties, and every single time, the questions lead to the most unexpected conversations.
Some answers are instant—like, who in their right mind would choose to never eat their favorite food again?
But others make you pause, rethink your entire life, and question your own morals.
And that’s exactly what makes this game so fun.
So, if you’re ready to test your decision-making skills, challenge your friends, and maybe learn a thing or two about yourself, here’s a list of the best adult Would You Rather questions to keep the laughs, debates, and maybe even a few heated arguments going all night long.
Let’s see what you’d really choose!
Fun & Lighthearted Would You Rather Questions
- Would you rather always have to sing instead of talking or dance everywhere you go?
- Would you rather have the ability to fly for 10 minutes a day or be invisible for one hour a day?
- Would you rather only be able to watch one TV show for the rest of your life or only listen to one song forever?
- Would you rather always have to wear neon colors or only be allowed to wear black?
- Would you rather have to eat spicy food for every meal or never taste anything again?
- Would you rather be trapped in a rom-com or a horror movie?
- Would you rather have a rewind button for your life or a pause button?
- Would you rather always be slightly late or super early to everything?
- Would you rather give up social media forever or never watch another movie?
- Would you rather have your dream job but be underpaid or a job you hate but make millions?
Spicy & Flirty Would You Rather Questions
- Would you rather have a one-night stand with your celebrity crush or get a lifetime supply of your favorite food?
- Would you rather only be able to kiss or never be able to kiss but do everything else?
- Would you rather have an amazing night with a stranger or a boring night with someone you love?
- Would you rather receive a steamy love letter or an unexpected spicy voicemail?
- Would you rather always be the one to make the first move or never be able to make a move at all?
- Would you rather be handcuffed to your partner for 24 hours or blindfolded every time you’re intimate?
- Would you rather have a secret admirer or be someone’s guilty pleasure?
- Would you rather never be able to cuddle again or never be able to kiss again?
- Would you rather always have amazing foreplay but never climax, or climax immediately with no build-up?
- Would you rather have to talk dirty all the time or never be able to say anything flirty again?
Deep & Thought-Provoking Would You Rather Questions
- Would you rather know the exact date you’re going to die or how you’re going to die?
- Would you rather be remembered for something embarrassing or forgotten entirely?
- Would you rather relive your happiest memory over and over or never be able to remember it again?
- Would you rather always know when someone is lying or never be able to lie yourself?
- Would you rather be alone for the rest of your life or constantly surrounded by people?
- Would you rather get rich doing something you hate or be poor doing what you love?
- Would you rather have the power to heal others or to read minds?
- Would you rather be able to control time or have unlimited knowledge?
- Would you rather live forever but be miserable, or have a short but happy life?
- Would you rather give up all modern technology or never travel again?
Dirty & NSFW Would You Rather Questions
- Would you rather have sex in public or never have sex again?
- Would you rather have your browsing history exposed or have to narrate your sex life to a room of strangers?
- Would you rather be caught in the act by your parents or accidentally walk in on them?
- Would you rather have an unexpected orgasm every time you kiss someone or never be able to orgasm at all?
- Would you rather only ever do missionary or never be able to do missionary again?
- Would you rather sleep with someone who talks non-stop or someone who never makes a sound?
- Would you rather accidentally send a naughty text to your boss or your grandma?
- Would you rather get a full-body massage from a stranger or give one to your boss?
- Would you rather always have to be in charge or always have to be submissive?
- Would you rather have the best sex of your life only once or mediocre sex forever?
- Would you rather only be able to have shower sex or never be able to shower with your partner again?
- Would you rather always have to moan loudly during sex or never make a sound at all?
- Would you rather be with someone who is terrible at kissing but great in bed or great at kissing but terrible in bed?
- Would you rather be blindfolded or handcuffed every time you get intimate?
- Would you rather have a hot affair with someone famous or a passionate relationship with someone unknown?
- Would you rather have a partner who talks dirty constantly or one who never says a word during intimacy?
- Would you rather never use a sex toy again or never be able to watch porn again?
- Would you rather have sex on the beach or in a luxury penthouse?
- Would you rather always get interrupted during sex or never be able to reach orgasm?
- Would you rather date someone who is into public displays of affection or someone who refuses to touch you in public?
- Would you rather always have to role-play in the bedroom or never be able to role-play again?
- Would you rather date someone who is always dominant or always submissive?
- Would you rather never be able to undress in front of your partner or never be able to see them undressed?
- Would you rather have a partner who is obsessed with kissing or a partner who avoids it entirely?
- Would you rather only be able to have quickies or only be able to have long, drawn-out sessions?
- Would you rather never be able to use lube again or never be able to use your hands during intimacy?
- Would you rather be able to read your partner’s mind during sex or have them read yours?
- Would you rather never be able to have morning sex or never be able to have sex at night?
- Would you rather always have to announce when you’re about to climax or never be able to climax at all?
- Would you rather have sex in a haunted house or in the middle of a crowded park?
- Would you rather never be able to initiate intimacy or only be the one who initiates?
- Would you rather date someone with an extremely high libido or someone with a very low libido?
- Would you rather be with someone who is overly affectionate or someone who rarely shows affection?
- Would you rather always have to have the lights on or always have them off?
- Would you rather only be able to use one position forever or never be able to repeat a position?
- Would you rather have your most embarrassing moment shared on social media or have it printed in a newspaper?
- Would you rather never be able to sext again or have all of your texts accidentally sent to your parents?
- Would you rather only be able to dirty talk in public or never be able to do it again?
- Would you rather always have an awkward silence after sex or have to engage in deep conversation immediately after?
- Would you rather have a sex playlist that always plays the same song or never be able to have music on?
- Would you rather have your ex see your entire browser history or your boss?
- Would you rather have to narrate your every move during intimacy or have your partner do it for you?
- Would you rather always be sticky or always be itchy?
- Would you rather have a partner who is too loud or too quiet?
- Would you rather have sex in zero gravity or underwater?
- Would you rather only be able to have sex in hotel rooms or never be able to stay in a hotel again?
- Would you rather have to send a risky text every day or never be able to text again?
- Would you rather have to wear lingerie every day or never be able to wear it again?
- Would you rather have a partner who talks too much during sex or never says a word?
- Would you rather only ever be able to have slow, sensual sex or only ever have fast, rough sex?
- Would you rather have to explain every detail of your sex life to a stranger or have your parents explain theirs to you?
- Would you rather always have to wear a blindfold during sex or always have to wear headphones?
- Would you rather have to call your boss every time you climax or have to call your ex?
- Would you rather only be able to sleep with people who are at least 10 years older or 10 years younger?
- Would you rather never be able to see your partner’s face during sex or never be able to see their body?
- Would you rather have sex in a moving car or on an airplane?
- Would you rather never be able to use your hands during sex or never be able to use your mouth?
- Would you rather have your intimate moments live-streamed to one person of your choosing or to a random audience?
- Would you rather have to keep your eyes open or closed during every intimate moment?
- Would you rather only be able to orgasm in public places or never be able to orgasm at all?
- Would you rather only be able to have sex when it’s raining or only be able to have sex during the hottest day of the year?
- Would you rather never be able to undress yourself or never be able to dress yourself?
- Would you rather always have to use ice during foreplay or always have to use hot wax?
- Would you rather have to whisper everything during sex or have to yell everything?
- Would you rather have a partner who can only be intimate on weekends or one who only wants to be intimate on weekdays?
- Would you rather always get caught by someone you know or never be able to have sex indoors again?
- Would you rather have to act out every fantasy your partner has or never be able to fulfill any fantasies at all?
- Would you rather have to tell your family every detail of your sex life or never be able to have sex again?
- Would you rather only be able to have sex in complete darkness or complete brightness?
- Would you rather have to do an embarrassing dance before every intimate moment or have to tell a bad joke afterward?
- …(Existing questions continue)…
- Would you rather always have to role-play in the bedroom or never be able to role-play again?
- Would you rather date someone who is always dominant or always submissive?
- Would you rather never be able to undress in front of your partner or never be able to see them undressed?
- Would you rather have a partner who is obsessed with kissing or a partner who avoids it entirely?
- Would you rather only be able to have quickies or only be able to have long, drawn-out sessions?
- Would you rather never be able to use lube again or never be able to use your hands during intimacy?
- Would you rather be able to read your partner’s mind during sex or have them read yours?
- Would you rather never be able to have morning sex or never be able to have sex at night?
- Would you rather always have to announce when you’re about to climax or never be able to climax at all?
- Would you rather have sex in a haunted house or in the middle of a crowded park?
- Would you rather never be able to initiate intimacy or only be the one who initiates?
- Would you rather date someone with an extremely high libido or someone with a very low libido?
- Would you rather be with someone who is overly affectionate or someone who rarely shows affection?
- Would you rather always have to have the lights on or always have them off?
- Would you rather only be able to use one position forever or never be able to repeat a position?
- Would you rather have your most embarrassing moment shared on social media or have it printed in a newspaper?
- Would you rather never be able to sext again or have all of your texts accidentally sent to your parents?
- Would you rather only be able to dirty talk in public or never be able to do it again?
- Would you rather always have an awkward silence after sex or have to engage in deep conversation immediately after?
- Would you rather have a sex playlist that always plays the same song or never be able to have music on?
- Would you rather have your ex see your entire browser history or your boss?
- Would you rather have to narrate your every move during intimacy or have your partner do it for you?
- Would you rather always be sticky or always be itchy?
- Would you rather have a partner who is too loud or too quiet?
- Would you rather have sex in zero gravity or underwater?
- Would you rather only be able to have sex in hotel rooms or never be able to stay in a hotel again?
- Would you rather have to send a risky text every day or never be able to text again?
- Would you rather have to wear lingerie every day or never be able to wear it again?
- Would you rather have a partner who talks too much during sex or never says a word?
- Would you rather only ever be able to have slow, sensual sex or only ever have fast, rough sex?
- Would you rather have to explain every detail of your sex life to a stranger or have your parents explain theirs to you?
- Would you rather always have to wear a blindfold during sex or always have to wear headphones?
- Would you rather have to call your boss every time you climax or have to call your ex?
- Would you rather only be able to sleep with people who are at least 10 years older or 10 years younger?
- Would you rather never be able to see your partner’s face during sex or never be able to see their body?
- Would you rather have sex in a moving car or on an airplane?
- Would you rather never be able to use your hands during sex or never be able to use your mouth?
- Would you rather have your intimate moments live-streamed to one person of your choosing or to a random audience?
- Would you rather have to keep your eyes open or closed during every intimate moment?
- Would you rather only be able to orgasm in public places or never be able to orgasm at all?
- Would you rather only be able to have sex when it’s raining or only be able to have sex during the hottest day of the year?
- Would you rather never be able to undress yourself or never be able to dress yourself?
- Would you rather always have to use ice during foreplay or always have to use hot wax?
- Would you rather have to whisper everything during sex or have to yell everything?
- Would you rather have a partner who can only be intimate on weekends or one who only wants to be intimate on weekdays?
- Would you rather always get caught by someone you know or never be able to have sex indoors again?
- Would you rather have to act out every fantasy your partner has or never be able to fulfill any fantasies at all?
- Would you rather have to tell your family every detail of your sex life or never be able to have sex again?
- Would you rather only be able to have sex in complete darkness or complete brightness?
- Would you rather have to do an embarrassing dance before every intimate moment or have to tell a bad joke afterward?
Final Thoughts
Would You Rather is the ultimate game for breaking the ice, getting to know someone better, or just having an unforgettable night of laughter and ridiculous debates.
Whether you’re looking for flirty fun or deep conversations, these 150 questions will definitely shake things up.
Try them out with your partner, friends, or even strangers—you never know what answers might surprise you!
Let me know which ones were the hardest to answer, and feel free to add your own wild Would You Rather questions in the comments!